Plan. Women are suckers for a man with a plan because it shows you have initiative, can think ahead, and aren’t shy about taking the lead. Don’t punt and ask her what she wants to do. Be a man! You’re the one doing the asking, so it’s your duty to come up with something that she’ll enjoy. When a woman is with a man that has a plan, they feel they can relax and really enjoy themselves. Hence the reason for this site. We know men are notorious date planners, so we will assist you with the planning or do the planning for you. You just enjoy the evening and take credit for it. Here is the run down:
Clean the car. If you’re picking her up in your car, give it a nice cleaning before the date. First impressions matter big whether it’s a first date, or not and women will check you like a drill sergeant at bunk inspection. Many women will use the cleanliness of your car to gauge how you carry yourself in the rest of your life. If you have empty 32 oz Big Gulp cups, old clothes strewn out in the back, and food crumbs everywhere, your date will assume your house is even messier and that you’re generally a slob during the rest of the week. Not a good first impression.
Get some cash. Stop by the ATM and pick up some cash. It’s good for tips but you’ll also need it to pay for parking and other incidentals during the evening.
Put on some decent attire. Proper attire not only leaves a good first impression, it’s just plain respectful. It shows your date you thought enough about them to put your best foot forward. When you show up in a pair of gym shorts and a t-shirt, it’s like telling your date, “Eh… I had nothing better to do so I just came over in what I was wearing.”Even if you’ve planned a casual date, put on something decently casual. No need to bust out a tie. Go for something like a pair of jeans, a button down shirt. Don’t come looking like Steve Erkel.
Call her and tell her exactly what you’re going to do on the date. While you might not think about getting ready for your date until a few hours before you pick her up, a lady likes to plan ahead and think about what she’ll wear and how she’ll do her nails.
Show your date that you have some gentlemanly forethought by calling a few days in advance and telling her exactly what you plan on doing with her. This will help her decide how she should dress and make herself up. Women really dislike being dressed inappropriately for the occasion.
Moreover, by knowing what you two will be doing together, your date will feel more comfortable and relaxed which results in her having a good time. Wait for the surprises after you get to know each other better.
Where to go. So where are you taking her seems like a legitimate question. For a youngster. Someone new to this but not necessarily true to this. Trying asking yourself what kind of experience I want to give her. That determines what you do and where you go. I suggest somewhere different, that won’t put a serious dent in your credit card, but will give you a lot of credit with her/him. Try Teavitalize. To some it seem like Tea tasting or Afternoon Tea. But its really an immersive journey that turns tea into a full sensory experience built around wellness ritual, taste, aroma, conversation, and connection. Here you and your date are guided through a grounding ritual that helps you to escape the everyday stress and both settle in. Put the phones away, and actually arrive in the moment. From there, the experience unfolds through curated tea tastings from around the world, thoughtful bites, natural conversation, and the chance to create a personalized tea blend together that you get to keep.
What makes Teavitalize such a memorable date experience is that it creates the space most dates are missing. Unlike loud bars, crowded restaurants, packed events, or movie nights where you barely speak, Teavitalize gives you room to connect while still keeping the experience moving. (daycrafted.com)